How to fix a broken heart | Guy Winch | TED
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At some point in our lives, almost every one of us will have our heart broken. Imagine how different things would be if we paid more attention to this unique emotional pain. Psychologist Guy Winch reveals how recovering from heartbreak starts with a determination to fight our instincts to idealize and search for answers that aren’t there — and offers a toolkit on how to, eventually, move on. Our hearts might sometimes be broken, but we don’t have to break with them.
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0:00 – 1:47 – Heartbreak Is a Form of Grief
1:47 – 3:56 – The Dangers of Comparison
3:56 – 5:12 – “Unattended Grief”
5:12 – 6:40 – What Buffalo Can Teach Us About Grief
6:40 – 8:39 – “Anger Is a Bodyguard for Pain”
8:39 – 10:16 – Showing Up for Ourselves
10:16 – 11:32 – When We’ve Abandoned Ourselves
11:32 – 13:04 – The Voice We Use
13:04 – 16:23 – The “Happiness After Heartbreak” Expert Series